I have so many stories I could go on and on. From an older man looking up my skirt when I was 14 to getting into a relationship with a 22 year old when I was 15 (completely groomed me) it goes on. I thought I would share this story since it happened the most recently. I was at work when this older man who I was helping stopped me as I was talking. He goes “I’m sorry but I just have to say, the way the sun hits your hair is so beautiful“ I said thank you, just a compliment no harm there. But he continued “don’t tell my wife this, but I collect redheads. Don’t change your hair ever” I was like “Oh…yeah my husband likes it” he then goes “I bet he does” and licks his lips. I told my coworkers what happened, keep in mind I work with all women, they go “oh yeah he’s just like that. Just a flirty old man” it hurts my heart that older men’s creepy behavior is justified by women that fail to see how wrong that is. I then promptly bleached my hair and went blonde the next week because fuck him.